April is Confederate History Month (yes really). As you delve into your family history, it is not uncommon to uncover both inspiring and challenging stories. One challenge that many face is the realization that their ancestors may have owned enslaved Black people. Coming to terms with this part of your personal family history can be difficult, but it is an essential step towards understanding our collective past and working towards a more just future.
1. Start with What You Know
Begin your journey by gathering as much information as possible about your family’s history. Talk to older relatives, search through family documents, and explore genealogy websites. This will help you establish a solid foundation for your research.
2. Examine Census Records
Census records can be a valuable resource in uncovering details about your ancestors’ lives. Look for records that include information about the number of enslaved individuals living in a household. These records may provide clues about your ancestors’ involvement in slavery.
3. Explore Property Records
Property records, such as land deeds and wills, can offer insights into your ancestors’ financial and social status. Look for any references to enslaved individuals in these documents. While not all property owners owned slaves, this information can shed light on your family’s history.
4. Investigate Family Stories and Oral Histories
Family stories and oral histories can be both enlightening and challenging when it comes to uncovering the truth about your ancestors. Listen to the stories passed down through generations and consider their implications. These stories may provide valuable clues or confirmations about your family’s involvement in slavery.
5. Consult Local Historical Societies and Archives
Reach out to local historical societies and archives in the areas where your ancestors lived. These organizations often have extensive records and resources that can help you piece together the puzzle of your family history. They may also be able to provide guidance on how to navigate this sensitive topic.
6. DNA Testing and Genetic Genealogy
DNA testing and genetic genealogy can provide additional insights into your family history. By comparing your DNA with others who have also taken tests, you may discover connections to distant relatives who can provide more information about your ancestors and their involvement in slavery.
7. Educate Yourself
Take the time to educate yourself about the history of slavery and its impact on society. Understanding the broader historical context will help you interpret the information you uncover about your ancestors. It is important to approach this research with empathy, recognizing the humanity of those who were enslaved.
8. Reflect and Share
As you uncover information about your ancestors’ involvement in slavery, it is essential to reflect on what you have learned. This process can be emotionally challenging, but it is an opportunity for personal growth and understanding. Consider sharing your findings with your family, engaging in open and honest conversations about your shared history.
9. Engage in Dialogue and Action
Recognize that the discovery of your ancestors’ ownership of enslaved people is not the end, but rather the beginning of a journey towards reconciliation. Engage in dialogue with others who are also exploring their family histories and work together to promote understanding and social justice.
10. Support Organizations and Initiatives
Consider supporting organizations and initiatives that are dedicated to preserving the history of enslaved people and promoting racial equality. By contributing to these efforts, you can help ensure that the stories of those who were enslaved are not forgotten and that we continue to work towards a more inclusive and just society.
Uncovering the truth about your ancestors’ involvement in slavery can be a challenging and emotional journey. However, by approaching this research with empathy, education, and a commitment to understanding, you can gain a deeper understanding of your family’s history and contribute to the ongoing work of reconciliation.
Learn more about the importance of understanding the social context of our ancestors lives.
